This whole mentality that women are not supposed to cry and always have to be fine is retarded. Sure women do it, but we should be able to say what is making us upset rather than hiding behind a fake smile and saying “I’m fine”. I personally find my self a victim of this social phenomenon. If you hide behind a smile or you do not feel like you can voice what is happening behind your tears, you are not strong. It takes a strong women to push through the pain of explain those tears.